Wednesday, 19 March 2008

How to win people

Take it from me, while you go happy-Eastering.

The only way to win anyone in the world, whether of the opposite sex or the same or different, is mastering the Art of Relating (AR). Nothing makes people more distant from you than your inability to relate to them. The more you relate to people is the more you wanna listen to them, spend time with them, laugh at their jokes and do stuff for them, even stand up for them. Do you relate to what I'm saying?

The reason there is still remnants of racism, tribalism, nepoticism in our here world is because we don't relate to each other. For example, I have had difficulty speaking or interacting with cocasians, because I don't relate to them. While to some extant I do relate to them (white people), I don't think they relate to me, and as a result I always have to relate towards them, but I don't like it one bit. I need people to relate to me so I can relate to them even much better. The question could be who should start? Well, most times I do initiate it but I don't have the patience, unless it's someone I'm trying to win for some lucrative, sexual or philosophical reasons; I am not that social, do you relate?

Well, thought I should update, for the sake of tge Diva. She demanded an update and here. Hope you people have a great loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong weekend like I know I'm about to. Lately I'm involved in some stuff I can't blog about because it might put my life in danger. Let me say that while I'm excelling in my walk with God, I am no longer a good man, except when it comes to my family and the woman I plan to marry. There is stuff that I get up that defies logic, but I'm alright y'all. Nelspruit is a nice city to live in, but it can be quiet, so much that you end up doing stuff you never thought you would do, especially stickking your NOSE where it doesn't belong...

DO YOU RELATE?

3 comments:

Just Khens. said...

Ehhe, I relate..... won't go into too much detail though!

Ya, ne Nst... So dude U R gettin marrierd soon? HuH...

Kanti don't you drink beer? Why haven't I been invited for a boozing session? You wouldn't be as bored as you is!!!

Thanx 4da update!

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KASIEKULTURE! said...

I thought you have died and gone to ???????????. Man, so I wasted my liquor pouring it the last month thinking the blogger has died and the need for Pussy was the last entry made and here you are alive. I should pop in at your crib in these few days and see what's so boring about NST when I think it's quite nice, Melville minus the nightlife. Welcome back